Judgements, assumptions. We all make them.
It’s part of being human but maybe we need to stop and think before we make an assumption of someone before knowing them or the full facts.
I know I have had assumptions made about me. I have been told I look “Bitchy”, “Unapproachable”
I was even told recently that i had not been accepted on to a counselling course due to my “vulnerabilities” All they knew about me that could possible have registered as “vulnerable” in their minds was the fact that I have bipolar disorder. Regardless of telling them all the awareness work I do etc etc I was deemed “vulnerable” – That is an assumption based on not a lot of information (Irony was part of the interview was talking about how counsellors shouldn’t make assumptions)
We all do it, it’s part of being human but I think It’s important to try to not make snap judgements about people and situations until we have learned the full facts.
As they say – You can’t judge a book by its cover!
This vlog is me talking about this and why you really can’t judge someone before knowing them first.
It’s World Mental Health Day 10th October
So I decided I wanted to organise another little project to tie in with this so I came up with ” Hearts Of Hope”
Seen as my last project with the notes on the bridge was “notes of hope” and my group which is still campaigning against the council who removed them has recently been renamed “Midlands Messages Of Hope” I wanted something that would tie in with this.
I came up with the idea of making similar notes to those on the bridge but with more of a general “mental health awareness” feel rather than the suicide prevention aim of the notes for the bridge and hanging them all around the rails that go around the entrance to my local park in the aim of mental health awareness, creating conversation around mental health and also notes that will tackle mental health stigma.
To my amazement after the recent awfulness and fight with Worcestershire county council removing my notes of hope from the bridge and what has turned in to a campaign in fight to rehang them I was completely shocked when within 2 hours I had a response from solihull council regarding the hearts if hope project, permission and support! It was pretty amazing considering recent events and so I will be aiming to do this project on 7th October to tie in to World Mental health day.
The aim is to hang them, people to read them, create conversation about mental health but to also attach them in a way so that they are removable.
People with a mental health issue and those who know someone with a mental health issue will be encouraged to take a heart and keep it or pass it on. Hopefully after a week all of the hearts with have gone to hands that need hope ♡♡
You can join the group to support me here : https://www.facebook.com/groups/278903099335095/
Here’s to filling hearts with hope ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡